http://brewingthoughts.net want a sip? Fri, 05 Dec 2008 07:40:00 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en sometimes, it's not enough to say the words "i'm here for you". most of the times, it's not enough to just say "i'm sorry" or "i didn't mean to". and it's never enough to say "i love you" or "i care for you". these words have no meaning if it's just ... http://brewingthoughts.net/2008/12/05/words/ how can you be sure that you're ready to make the next big step of your life? i heard people say that they're already ready to get married and settle down. but how do you know when you're ready? i've thought about settling down before, when i was still single and ... http://brewingthoughts.net/2008/12/05/on-settling-down/ sometimes i wish i was a bit selfish and a bit insensitive. not too much.. just a little bit. i wonder what's it like to just think of yourself, oblivious of how your actions will affect other people. whenever i say or do something, i always put myself in their ... http://brewingthoughts.net/2008/11/28/i-wonder/ ever since i came back here, i've been busy with my work. every day, i have over time. the last time i've experienced this was 2005, when me and Arthur first came in Murase Denki. I experienced working til 11pm during winter! it was a good thing that we live ... http://brewingthoughts.net/2008/11/14/busy-when-its-almost-christmas/ i wrote this entry 2 months ago, after reading a document from my previous company.. what do i really want? do i really want to stay or leave? i just read a document, and i'm excited to see that there are a lot of things that could happen. honestly, i want to ... http://brewingthoughts.net/2008/10/09/what-to-do-what-to-do/ they say that love comes when you least expect it. and for me, i really didn't. http://brewingthoughts.net/2008/09/10/when-you-least-expect-it/ i was a shy person when i was growing up. i usually have stage-fright when in front of an audience. the only time that i was not that scared was when i was tasked to play the guitar in our community in college. so when i was asked to join ... http://brewingthoughts.net/2008/09/06/performing-on-stage/ okay.. this blog really need some upgrades and some make-over..  i wanted to change my template, but no time for this.. and maybe i should post more pictures (well.. no pictures right now hahaha) i also need to upload pictures.. update websites.. update network sites.. hope i won't be too lazy to ... http://brewingthoughts.net/2008/07/28/blog-needs-some-upgrades/ it's been almost a month since i had my birthday celebration. this year, i had a two-weekend celebration. compared to my previous birthdays here in japan, i spent the day alone. it fell on a weekday, so i had to go to work. i just cooked some pasta and bought ... http://brewingthoughts.net/2008/07/10/birthday-celebration/ sometimes, we easily get hurt by the people around us. even if it's trivial or petty, for us, it's already a big deal. words coming from someone close to me hurt me more than any physical injury. Unkind words, discouraging remarks, broken promises. Even if the person meant no harm, if ... http://brewingthoughts.net/2008/06/19/expectations/